Friday, September 26, 2014

Our Sweet Performer

This boy is so ready to perform.  

He is such a peanut, so tiny compared to those other kiddos.  But, he is so focused and determined to perform every motion correctly! :)  


My mama heart can't wait to sit in church beaming during a King's Kids performance knowing this sweet little boy is OURS!  He is the sweetie second from the right side of the screen in brown pants and red shirt.


Thursday, September 18, 2014

4 Years Ago We Experienced Our First Gotcha Day

It was Sunday (September 19, 2010) afternoon in Nanjing, China.  We were so incredibly nervous.  We were about to meet the little girl that we had only known from paperwork and a few pictures that were taken when she was about 9 months old.  Kaitlyn was now almost 3 years old.  



We entered the Civil Affairs building, where children sat waiting for their parents.  We didn't see any familiar looking faces and parents were quickly united with their kiddos.  Our traveling buddies found their beautiful little girl.  We continued to wait and the nerves only increased.  Then, her nanny walked through the door.  We immediately recognized that round beautiful face and gorgeous brown eyes!  Her nanny even smiled, recognizing us from the photo book we had sent.  Kaitlyn let me feed her Puffs, touch her head and back, and even change her diaper (while her nanny watched from close by).  



The nanny slipped away when Kaitlyn wasn't looking.  Then, it happened... She noticed...

Yup, this girl had a set of lungs!!  That lollipop you see, ended up in my hair.  I was kicked, hit, and bit.  The Civil Affairs office was being remodeled and her screams echoed throughout the building for the next 30 minutes.  When we finally left the building she settled in, gave up, and relaxed.  By the end of the day she was interacting and laughing with us.  She still had plenty of tantrums, but we had lots of amazing moments and precious memories!  She loved to play, interact, and mimic us.



When we came home, she quickly figured out how to hold her own around her brothers.

We discovered the amazing transformations that happen when God knits your family together.  The pieces just fit, as if they were an entire puzzle designed to be together from the beginning.



This girl continues to amaze us!  She is kind, loving, funny, and even-tempered.  We are so in love with her and she opened up a world to us that forever changed our hearts!  We love you Kaitlyn Qingyan Anderson!!








Go here to revisit the journey to Kaitlyn (password: anderson5)

Tuesday, September 16, 2014

Boys, Boys, So Many Boys!

How did we get boys from China?  I get asked this question a LOT!  Few people are aware that most of the kiddos waiting for a family in China are boys.  Orphanages are filled with a majority of these amazing, adorable little guys.  Many of them have very minor needs, but they wait because of their gender.  Can you believe this sweet little one waited for over 5 years?  He was available for adoption at 2 years old.
 

Yes, I know, they don't always choose the best clothes.  But, look at that adorable face.  He was passed over for 5 years!  I am SO THANKFUL that we get to call him SON!  Can't wait to squeeze him and see those dimples in real life!

Please consider adoption and pray for all of those sweet boys still waiting!

Monday, September 8, 2014

Are you ready for more adorableness??

Is that even a word?  "Adorableness"?  Well, I'm using it, because I am so in love with this little guy!

I was blessed by another video from a fellow adoptive mom.  She had inquired about our little guy, but realized the timing was off for her family.  She has been so supportive and sent me an update and video that she had received.  Check out how adorable he is in this video!
He is so beyond adorable!! :)  I love his little voice.  Mark fell in love with the way he hammered in the pegs.  Did you notice?  Mark wishes that he could teach all of our children to be that quiet!

Sunday, September 7, 2014

Why haven't I been blogging? BEES!!!!

Well, actually Wasps! However, Bees just sounds like a better title… Attack of the Killer Bees…

Let’s back up

We came home from Gatlinburg a few weeks ago.  It was a great vacation, but so good to be home.  The kids came running into our room, while I was beginning to unpack and said, “There are bugs everywhere on the stairs!”  I assumed they meant the basement stairs.  No… they meant our main stairs, and they weren’t just any bugs, they were wasps.  We found them everywhere!  Mostly on the stairs and in the front landing, however, we ended up having to vacuum out the couch cushions and all of the Littles toys.  The important note here is they were dead.  We found maybe 3 live ones, but we assumed they came through a window and Orkin’s spray had done the job.

Fast-forward to Labor Day (yes, the day before school began!)

I am relaxing for my final day, knowing that I will spend it building a backpack stand with Mark and my dad and then planning for my first day with students.  I was just getting out of the shower, when the girls came running into my room yelling, “BEES!!!!”  Out I went, following behind them.  There in our landing (2 stories up) were about 30 wasps circling and buzzing.  My heart raced, my boys and Littles were still up there!  The only way up is this staircase.  (Later I found out that the boys told the girls they had to come let me know before someone got stung and then shut their door and hunkered down.  Yup, brave boys! )

I ducked, covered my head, and ran upstairs.  I told the boys to go and go quick.  Grabbed a Little under each arm and ran down the stairs.  Mark and I put all of the kiddos in our bedroom, safely in the back of the first floor and farthest from Waspegeddon. 

We armed ourselves with Wasp Spray I had purchased about a year ago and unloaded on the ceiling.  We realized the dot we thought had been the beginning of a hive, was actually a hole.  They had since chewed a second hole and were coming through both in droves.  You could hear the hum of buzzing through the ceiling!  There were about 75 now.  We called everyone we could.  No one could help us, they were all closed for Labor Day.


My mom and dad had come to attempt to help out.  Mark was hitting them as they fell from the ceiling and mom and I were attempting to calm kids down.  We decided that we needed to get the kiddos out.  So, I dodged the falling wasps again and ran back upstairs, trying to pack for my kiddos first day of school.  Tears welled up in my eyes as I began to realize that I would not be getting my work done or helping my sweet kiddos look perfect for their first day of school. 

Mark had taken a trip to Darrell’s and picked up a plastic drop cloth and painter’s tape.  We worked to seal off the upstairs/stairwell.  Then, mom and I set off for her house in DeWitt with all the kiddos.  Mark and my dad went upstairs to attempt to spray directly from the second floor attic access. 
I got my kiddos settled in at mom’s and realized that it was best for me to spend the night back here and get some work done.  After watching a few wasps attempt to get in through our plastic shield to no avail, I was ready to hit the hay.


The next day, I was happy to get an email of my kiddos’ first day pic from Mark.  They made it on time from DeWitt to catch the bus (a 35 minute trip).  Mark checked in and said that Orkin had come to spray, but they couldn’t remove the hive, so we should have decreased activity in 1-2 days and none in 7-10 days.  I called to see how mom was doing, as she still had the Littles.  No one had slept really well at her house (not built for this many people, as I am an only child).  

We decided the kiddos would have to sleep here.  We put blankets on the living room floor and the kiddos camped out for a few nights.   We would go outside to enter the house through the front door in order to go upstairs and pick out outfits for the next day, dodging the dropping wasps and collection that were wiggling on the floor.  This went on for the next couple of nights.



We finally had it!  The kids needed to be in their beds.  Thursday, Mark aired out the upstairs and we worked that night to clean up all of the dead wasps we could.  We took down the plastic and cleaned up the railings and tile that were soaked in spray.

So… we are sleeping in our beds.  We all are used to the check for wasps during the day and in the mornings (how many have dropped, how active are they, etc).  Mark will be making some calls to see if someone is willing to come and remove the hive.  We will need someone to repair the hole in the roof (small hole near a dormer).  Finally, our drywall on the ceiling of our stairwell will need to be replaced.


This has been slightly overwhelming, however, there are praises.  It happened just before school started.  My parents were able to take the kiddos home and get them back for school.  NO ONE (not even dad who went into the attic and had a wasp in his collar) got stung!!  And, according to Jayson, camping out in the living room during school is the BEST! :)