We are beyond thrilled that we will soon be going to get our
two newest kiddos from China. It has
taken a huge leap of faith to include our Bigs and Middles in this
adventure. Adoption, abandonment,
healing, and love are topics that are addressed often and openly in our
family. We have spent many hours talking
about how these two newest members might feel as they meet us for the first
time and leave behind all that they have known for the past 5 and 6 years. This will be a huge adjustment for them. Kristyn’s and Greyson’s only experiences with
families include disappointment and abandonment. We may see a variety of
emotions and actions as they try and guard their hearts. As a family, we have talked about how to
react to these possibilities. Meilynn
has been able to share her story and her feelings, as a child adopted at the
same age our son will be. We are also
fully aware that every child’s story is different. It is our family’s hope that the Bigs and
Middles can make this transition easier, as they demonstrate a parent/child
relationship and sibling relationships in the context of a loving family.
We are also excited about what this trip will mean for each
of our kiddos. We hope that it will be a
time of healing and connection for our daughters, as they visit China
again. This time they will be able to
experience China with the knowledge that they are part of a loving, forever
family. We hope that they will be able
to enjoy the culture and appreciate the beautiful country they came from. We are excited that our sons will finally be
able to be an integral part of the journey we have taken 3 other times without
them. We have shared as much of China as
possible with them, through videos, books, talks, and endless reminiscing over
photos taken during our trips. They are
very excited to finally be able to experience firsthand the country that brought
us 6 of their siblings.
God teaches us a LOT during these adoption journeys. The biggest lesson we learn each and every
time is dependence on Him! Every time we
begin to think that “we’ve got this”, He reminds us that He is our Father and
Provider. When we started this journey
last summer, He was gracious enough to provide a loan that would allow us to travel
to China to get our son and include our 4 oldest children. Since then, unexpected expenses have come
up. He also laid on our hearts to trust
Him and bring home a daughter as well.
We have written for a couple of grants, but our timeline moved MUCH
faster than expected. We just received word that we will not be receiving one of these grants. We are praying that the second will be awarded. (We would
appreciate your prayers also!)
However, we find ourselves needing to trust Him for the funds we will
need to go get our kiddos. The beauty is
that YOU can help! You can be a part of
our story!! You may not be in a position
to bring home a child of your own, but this is a chance to provide a home for
two children that are in China and have each been waiting for a family for over
half a decade. We are having a puzzle
fundraiser. We felt that this is a
tangible way for our children to see God provide and how He orchestrates this
through the heart of others. For every $10 you donate, we will write
your name on the back of a puzzle piece and “build” our family! When the puzzle is finished, we will frame it
in a double-clear frame and display it.
This will serve as a constant reminder of all of you that contributed so
that our family could be together. Thank
you for reading and considering a donation!
The DONATE button is located up at the right, above the fundraising thermometer. THANKS!!
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