Greyson is figuring out what it means to be part of a family. He is discovering what love and cuddles feel like and how much he loves them. School has been a tough adjustment. Institutional settings remind him of a "not-so-happy" past, but he is starting to discover that it will be okay and that he enjoys learning. He is a smart little guy, but there is so much to learn when you start from nothing. He was never exposed to books or writing utensils or any kind of learning for that matter. He didn't understand what school meant or how to be a student. We decided to start him in kindergarten, as this was more developmentally appropriate for him. This was a great decision and I am so thankful that he is such a little thing. They say that you lose 4-6 months for every year you spend in an institution. This would be a 3-3.5 year regression for Greyson. That puts him right at the kindergarten level. At the beginning, I would accept his hugs and then continue about 15-30 seconds after he was "done". Now, he can't wait to cuddle and sit on my lap. He has learned how wonderful love is!
Kristyn is settling in and showing some of her strong personality traits. When she wants something, she wants it and she wants it NOW! This was the way she survived for 6 years. We are gently teaching her the difference between needing to survive and being a caring member of a family. She is ALWAYS ready to give hugs and show affection. She had an easier time transitioning to school, but is quite vocal when she doesn't want to do something. We are still working on letting her know that she is not in charge all of the time. You can tell that she had great care, but very little affection and love. Her smile swallows her face when she is cuddling with you or giving you a good night hug.
Thank you so much for praying for our family and this time of transition! Your prayers are felt! We are extremely blessed that God chose us for these amazing little cherubs!
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